I read this blog this morning, and almost shared it on facebook:
But a couple of things held me back.
Firstly, I don't like to call people names, so I didn't want to re-post things like "feminazi" and "harpies", like I believe it's okay to say something like that. I don't want to bash all liberal women, like I think they all think the same.
Secondly, I have a few more things to say about the issue.
I agree with them wholeheartedly on one thing - asking the government to pay for your birth control and abortions is not feminism and is not equal rights, no matter whether you believe those things are okay or not.
Personally, I would not partake in either, and while I wish abortion would be abolished across the entire universe, I am not trying to take anyone's birth control away.
Let's get one thing straight - HEALTH CARE IS NOT A RIGHT. If someone spends years in college, not to mention paying a lot of money for that education, and they learn to provide a particular skill, we do not get to call their skill a "right". That is something we have to pay for, should we desire it. Since when did people start confusing something that would be a great thing for everyone to have with a "right"? Yes, ideally, we would all have health care when we need it, but we don't get to lay a claim on someone else's skill. If you want to lay a claim on that skill, you have to go to school to learn it for yourself.
Now, should the government be paying for that? ABSOLUTELY NOT. I don't see men running around asking for the government to pay for prostate exams. Since when is it an equal right to have the government pay for birth control? Equal to what? Because that is what feminism is about - equal rights - not running around asking the government to provide for your basic healthcare. You can't just grab any issue that is related to women and call it feminism.
Does anyone else miss the days when feminists where the women who stood up for the right to own property, the right to vote, the right to work outside the home, the right to be paid equally, the right to not be sexually harassed or be treated lesser than a man?
When did women's right get boiled down to wanting the government to provide my birth control for free, and if someone disagrees with that, then they have a war on all of women?!?! Frankly, that is ludicrous, and I have a war on myself by that logic.
This isn't a war on women - this is a war on government spending. I do not believe it is the governments place to pay for birth control, just like it is not their place to pay for prostate exams. It's not a male/female issue - and it's not a male/female issue for any conservatives that I know or that I have ever heard discuss it. The people who want to say this is a war on women are JUST NOT LISTENING.
This is the basic argument between liberals and conservatives - not whether people should have access to certain things, but whether it the the job of the government to pay for it. If you want to make this a war on women, you should ask yourself a few things: Do you believe in fair argument? Do you believe in truth? Do you enjoy painting the person you are arguing with in a negative light? Do you want to win this argument in any way possible, even if it includes lying about the person you are arguing with?
Because if you want to say I have a war on women, then you can answer yes to all those questions. My stance has nothing to do with women, but everything to do with fiscal conservatism.
